If it is not allowed in church, why do we allow it in our homes? Are we somehow shielded from God when we walk in our front doors?
... of course, certain sacred acts between married couples are exempted. Places of public gathering would be inappropriate locations to perform your marital duties.
Cussing is bad in church, for example. I need to work on my language. I can sometimes become quite coarse when behind closed doors and alone.
Watching gratuitiously violent or lewd films is not appropriate in church. Perhaps I should reexamine my video library. Do I really need to be watching films with heads being blown off, space monsters bursting from chests, the f-word every five seconds, suggestive or even explicit sex scenes? I do find some of this to be entertaining, but isn't that the problem? I should find such behavior and acts repugnant as a practicing Christian. This is food for thought. What am I feeding my brain?
Lent - this is what it is for: to take spiritual stock of your life. I have lots of work to do.